“I have a beautiful one, but a very interested wife. I try to satisfy all her whims. However, this is not enough. I have to pay her for sex. Recently, she put a catalog of a mail-order house by her bedside. When I want to make love to her, she reaches for the catalog and shows me the thing with her finger, I want to have. When I disagree, refuses to have sex. I am absolutely sick of this situation.”
Situation, you are in, it is indeed unenviable. There are many indications of this, that you have a kind of escort agency at home. I would advise you to throw your mail-order catalog out your door, followed by his wife. At least for a while, until he wakes up. If for her the most important thing in life is money, you should seriously consider the value of your marriage.