Mothers' advice, to keep it for the husband, they seemed out of date and ridiculous to them. Pressure from colleagues, girlfriends, fashion for lightness of manners and carelessness – it all did, that the girls tried to get rid of this "value" as soon as possible. Even a coincidence is known, that a student sought help from a gynecologist, because she didn't want to be mocked by her new boyfriend…
Something is changing
However, it happens more and more often, that girls avoid random close-ups. They combine sex with feeling, and not just with physical pleasure. Is it a result of fear of the threat of AIDS? Or maybe just fashion?
From a survey conducted in the United States, entitled. "True love will wait," it follows, that half a million young Americans have declared their intention to withhold initiation until their wedding day. So virginity becomes a different lifestyle – healthy and sensible. This new phenomenon has spread beyond America, but slowly begins to enter Europe.
Can refuse? Each of us has to answer this question for ourselves. It's definitely worth combining sex with feeling, because it greatly enriches the experience. But when to decide for the first time? Opinions on this are, of course, divided… So the choice is ours. The other question is the question that arises: how to refuse, so as not to offend, do not fool you? Him and myself. For this you need the maturity of both partners, personal culture and feeling. After all, a lot also depends on the mood of the moment.