What does it mean to be a mother?

What does it mean to be a mother? Maybe I will start my considerations with a certain one, timeless maxim, which is beautiful, a wooden plaque was given to me by my Daughters last year for Mother's Day: "Hotel Mama ... 24h always open". I was very touched at these words, seeing, that they feel too, that they can count on me at any time. 24 hours a day, I am day and night for them. Yes in 100%.

This motto accompanies me every day and is a maxim, I sign with both hands. Someone will ask why? I already answer - That's why, that after a night full of dreams and thoughts about the tasks that await you tomorrow, in the morning you start to function at full capacity ... even if you try to rest, your thoughts are occupied with many matters - dentist, speech therapist, extra activities for children, school trip, which still has to be paid, repairing a leaking tap, to plan a family vacation.

Motherhood is a constant lack of time! Because no matter how many times you've already loaded the washing machine, and another batch is waiting. No matter how many times you've washed the dishes today, and more are gathering. Does not matter, how early you get up and send the whole bunch to school or kindergarten. You'll leave the house in a hurry anyway - that's a whole paradox. Despite these paradoxes, i love being mom. Although it is a very big challenge, sometimes difficult to bear on a daily basis, especially with a bunch of kids of one age, to

I love this state.

I cannot imagine my life without him. This is my life and the most beautiful part of it.

It is this state that gives me wings and gives me power. I love hearing the magic word "mom" for the hundredth time on the same day. It is a balm to my soul. Looking every day, how my Corcie grows, how they change, I do not believe, that's it 9 years. 9 years of being a cleaner, washerwoman, Cook, but most of all a mother and a friend. I love picking my 10th dress for the "Got Talent" school performance and watching "Barbie" for the hundredth time, or "The Lion King". I love being needed by my children, when e.g.. participate in swimming competitions or "Games and activities", needing my presence and support. I want to be a good mom and I like the bar, which I often set myself quite high.

My goal is this, to save in the memory of my children an image of a warm home with a well-groomed mother, a partner relationship and finally a loving family, our happy seven :):):):):):):)

I wish to, that the warmth of the family nest would show our daughters the way home, even from the farthest journeys. Even when they have their children themselves, lest they despise Mom's time, because I do not like my mother, a warm corner and ... beautiful childhood memories ...

Mom is nothing else, like love without limits, when you hug your children, when you look them straight in the eye, it's like the world is stopping. Being a mom also means believing it, that these difficult days and sleepless nights will someday reward you a hundredfold. Because when you were born, it was she who trembled for your health, it was she who stayed with you all night and held you in her arms until she saw the dawn of the next day. During the day, which she could never say, I can't do it anymore, I'm taking time off. NO! We are not allowed to take the day off. We must be and continue

Because what could be more important than the upbringing of another human being?

For me personally, as mothers of daughters, soon a teenager, and then the women, it's the meaning of my life. I gave myself up completely and I still devote myself to my Daughters and I love it. Because I love being a mom. I dream of such a moment, that one day my daughter, being adult women, they said: "Mom, we are proud of you". Then it will be the biggest prize.

Being a mother is a great pride, pride in my Daughters and their little or bigger successes, starting with sitting down, crawling, the first step, first word mom, for medals in sports competitions, spelling competitions, or math Olympiads. Each individualist and the best in its category. And this pride will accompany me all my life, nothing will matter anymore. And this pride is also pride of myself, that I made it, I'm not crazy, with five toddlers of one age, perpetual milk wholesaler and drowning pampers.

Although I had moments of breakdown, difficult moments, I was always guided by one thing - I am a mother and a fighter - I will not give up !!!

And I did not give up, and you too, dear Mother, do not give up! Because our life is in our hands, despite the failures, but also successes, thanks to which we rediscover our goal. The purpose of being a mother, but also a woman, which under her heart through 9 months she wore her greatest happiness. remember! We have been invited to the most beautiful journey of being a mother ...

Happy birthday Dear Mom

At the end of my modest considerations, a dedication to my little daughters:

“It was me who carried you under my heart

It is I who asked for your health,

You were with me from the first gram,

You my children, I am your mother "

I love you, my stars